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		<title>My So Called Lesbian Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 19:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paige</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Memoir]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok so I was free, free to live my lesbian life.  I moved in with a straight friend of mine, Lisa.  It was nice to be out of the hetero marriage and off to discover my lesbian life.  I really did not know what I was doing though and I really did not know the so called Lesbian World and Lesbian Life that I was entering into.  It was all new to me.  I enjoyed going to the lesbian bars and dancing.  That was a blast.  A place to dance with other lesbian women and no men.  I seriously was in heaven.

I had a strange experience that was soon to be at my doorstep though.  Well honestly, this would not be the first or last strange experience in my lesbian life.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok so I was free, free to live my lesbian life.  I moved in with a straight friend of mine, Lisa.  It was nice to be out of the hetero marriage and off to discover my lesbian life.  I really did not know what I was doing though and I really did not know the so called Lesbian World and Lesbian Life that I was entering into.  It was all new to me.  I enjoyed going to the lesbian bars and dancing.  That was a blast!  I loved the bars because they were a place to dance with other women all around and no men in sight.  I seriously was in heaven.</p>
<p>I had a strange experience that was soon to be at my doorstep though.  Well honestly, this would not be the first or last strange experience in my lesbian life.  </p>
<p>I met a lesbian couple, Shandra and Cynthia.  They seemed nice and I thought it was so cool that they had been together for about five years.  Shandra and I had a lot in common.  We had a lot of common interests.  It was cool to have a lesbian friend who had a lot in common with me.  Then one day, Cynthia called me and set up Shandra and I going shopping without her.  I thought it was very strange, but hey I went shopping.  Well when Cynthia kept calling to set up outings for Shandra and I, I got a little suspicious.  So I asked Cynthia what was up.  Piece of advice here, if you do not really want to know the answer to something do not ask the question!</p>
<p>Well, Cynthia spilled her beans and told me she was having an affair on Shandra and she felt guilty.  She did not want to be with Shandra anymore and she thought Shandra and I made a good couple.  Ok I was weirded out a bit.  I had never been set up with someone let alone set up with someone by their current partner.  </p>
<p>Well, Shandra never knew what was going on and to this day I am not sure if Shandra ever found out.  Shandra started to get pretty affectionate with me and well when she made the moves on me I did not resist.  Heck, I wanted another lesbian experience and Shandra, although in a relationship, was not going to be in her relationship for much longer so I did not feel like it was a bad thing to do.  </p>
<p>Okay I mention Shandra here because of the weird experience.  Shandra sucked in bed.  Sorry Shandra, but it was the worst sex of my life.  I am not sure why she was so bad, but it was like she did not know how a woman's body worked and she was a woman.  I would have been better off touching myself!  At least I can make myself have a pretty amazing orgasm because Shandra could not make me orgasm.  I for the first time in my lesbian life had to fake an orgasm.  By the way, I guess I am a pretty good at faking an orgasm!</p>
<p>Shandra got really weird after we slept together (if you can call it that).  She started just showing up at my place unannounced.  It was weird.  I felt like I was being followed or stalked.  I had enough of Shandra.  </p>
<p>Somehow Cynthia found out that Shandra and I slept together and I was more than a little surprised when Cynthia was upset that I had slept with Shandra and not her.  Okay that is a little weird to me!  That is when I decided that my so called lesbian life was better off without Shandra and Cynthia in it.</p>
<p>Shandra and Cynthia soon split and I am not even sure where they are now.  I used to see them at the lesbian bars when I would go dancing, but since I am now domesticated with an amazing lover (Kass) and our kids, we just do not make it to the lesbian bars for a night out.  That is okay because I can handle not seeing Shandra and Cynthia.  The brief experience with Shandra and Cynthia was a little too weird for me.</p>
<p>I was still emeshed in the Lesbian World though.  I had quite a few lesbian friends.  We all hung out and I kept meeting more and more lesbian friends through my current lesbian friends.  Life was great.  I was single and finally a lesbian out in the world.  I was enjoying being a lesbian.  I had no desire to be tied down with a relationship.  I just wanted to figure out what this so called lesbian life was about and enjoy every minute of it.</p>
<p>And then I met Janice!</p>
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